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Has an Ex Ruined a Scent for You?

Tue, 08/19/2008 - 5:00am by bellasugar
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The scenario: Your ex wore a certain cologne/deodorant/scented something-or-other for the entire duration of your relationship, and now you can't bear the smell. Not even on a cab driver or brother-in-law. Or, their favorite scent of yours now only reminds you of them (goodbye, sweet Narciso . . .). Has this ever happened to you?

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  • Greentea1203's picture
    Greentea1203
    1

    Unfortunately, yes. I used to wear Burberry Brit and my ex wore the man's version, and every time I wear it now I think back to when we first started dating, so I eventually threw what I had left away. I still wear Prada, even though when I'd wear it he said I smelled like Christmas. Sigh...

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • kilo's picture
    kilo
    4

    I had an ex-husband that doused an 'altar' in sandalwood oil, making the whole house reek for weeks. Sigh, and I used to love sandalwood.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • em1282's picture
    em1282
    5

    Calvin Klein's Eternity has been ruined for me, and so has Chrome. Luckily the bf doesn't really wear any cologne so if things go south I won't have to worry about this again...

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • lenepocket's picture
    lenepocket
    6

    yeah totally for me...curve!!!!
    I used to spray it on stuffed animals too!!!
    I loved it but not anymore!!!!

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • soulight's picture
    soulight
    8

    Adidas sport, but I think I was sick when he wore the scent anyways when things were great.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • retrodoll's picture
    retrodoll
    9

    I think back to the cologne's of past boyfriends when I smell them again. The most recent wore Usher... But none have worn my favorite, which is Vera Wang for men. lol So that is at least saved for to enjoy.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • Lovely_1's picture
    Lovely_1
    10

    Yes!
    Stupid ex and his Armani Black...I told my current lover he CANNOT wear that!

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • princess_eab's picture
    princess_eab
    11

    kinda... he bought me this huge bottle of Gaultier pour femme... and I LOVE it... but it's on hiatus right now because he loved the scent so much.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • bigestivediscuit's picture
    bigestivediscuit
    12

    Not an ex, but this guy I COULD NOT STAND who was in one of my grad school courses. My bf used to wear Issey Miyake's l'eau d'issey and I loved it on him ... then I met this stupid guy and he was such a creep and RUINED that scent. The next time my bf wore it, I told him he'd have to retired it PERMANENTLY b/c it immediately made me think of this guy and made my blood boil! I'm in search of a new one for him ... thinking possibly Marc Jacobs.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • Advah's picture
    Advah
    13

    Yes. I can't remember the name of his perfume, but it was a typical yet very nice and subtle guy perfume - whenever I walk behind a guy who wears some sort of guy perfume I still choke up a bit. And same thing with his deo. Sad Kind of a pain, really.

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  • Papaver's picture
    Papaver
    14

    Chrome Azzaro and Gucci Envy.
    But it doesn't bother me so much as it used to.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • SomethingWicked's picture
    SomethingWicked
    15

    YEs!
    Axe!...I smell it and I just want to smash things...lol...ok I don't go that crazy but I do get upset

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • danzerdrea7's picture
    danzerdrea7
    16

    My ex hated when I wore perfume, so he didn't ruin it for me... because I actually get to wear it now! I get a little turned off by old spice bodywashes though.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • LaU*'s picture
    LaU*
    19

    OH GOD YES!. Although I never knew what perfume he used.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • quietriott's picture
    quietriott
    21

    armani black.

    i also usually scrap whatever perfume i wore when with the guy too. i can't wear clinique happy heart, j'adore dior, or marc jacobs any more...

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • CYL's picture
    CYL
    22

    Mmm one of my exs wore Givenchy Pi..then another of my exs wore it too...now I can't stand it...it brings back bad memories. Also one of my exs also used this brand of liquid detergent for his clothes...and he always smelled of that laundry scent...that smell makes me gag now.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • oxykisses's picture
    oxykisses
    23

    ehh kinda..when i smell the scent it reminds me of certain things and makes me miss those days but i still love the smell so if i smell it again i get kinda happy.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • Seka21's picture
    Seka21
    24

    Yes.. and when i smell it the hairs on the back of my neck stand up.

    but not just that..her ruined a brand... a place... a holiday destination.. oh and my life. Id be happy never to smell it again!

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  • Jude C's picture
    Jude C
    25

    I don't like guys who wear cologne anyway (it gives me a headache), so no.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • g1amourpuss's picture
    g1amourpuss
    26

    I can't stand Curve on anyone other than my exhusband. He always smelled so nice.

    I don't like anything other than Adidas fragrances on my husband. There's something in their fragrances that just makes me melt. Before him I would have never picked that fragrance out for a man.

    My first exgirlfriend wore Tommy Girl with Sandalwood. She smelled really yummy.

    Smells and scents are so important.. Luckily no one has ruined a scent for me.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • lovestephunnie's picture
    lovestephunnie
    27

    Oh gosh yes-- my ex wore this scent from a&f so now EVERY time I walk past the store, I smell it and I feel the need to run. It sucks because he and I had this insane love of Hot Tamales (the candy) and whenever I smell the a&f scent, I also smell cinnamon!

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  • KathleenxCouture's picture
    KathleenxCouture
    28

    HAHAHA Lovestephunnie I'm in the EXACT SAME situation. The ex wore A&F Cologne and he doused himself in it and now even when I am remotely near (or even 100 feet away) from A&F in the mall or if I smell it on someone I freak. It makes my skin crawl now

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • neonbee's picture
    neonbee
    29

    Yeps. Aqua di Gio will never be the same. My past two exes wore it and now, the guy I'm dating is also wearing it. I think I should give him an ultimatum.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • ilanac13's picture
    ilanac13
    30

    fortunately - i don't put that much importance on something that an ex gave me or wore. there's this one perfume that i LOVE that i probably never would have tried if an ex hadn't bought it for me, and now to this day i'll still wear it - it's one of many that i rotate.

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • mstinalin's picture
    mstinalin
    31

    Polo Blue. I still love the scent but I cant stand how it brings back the memories.

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  • Muirnea's picture
    Muirnea
    32

    I actually love the scent a guy used to wear! He was one of those bad boy types and we had a month long fling (best way to describe it,ha), nothing serious what so ever... And so there were no hard feelings or anything when we went our separate ways, so the smell brings back a lot of good memories.

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  • rebelchipmunk's picture
    rebelchipmunk
    33

    Aqua Velva aftershave. It was our little thing; when he'd shave, and put on his Aqua Velva, he'd come to where ever I was at and say "CLEAN! SMELL!" and I'd thus proceed to put my nose on his cheek and take a big whiff of that smell. I loved it.
    I agree with you Mstinalin, love the scent, but I don't want it to bring back memories. I hate how when I really miss a person, their scent seems to linger everywhere I go. I hope it doesn't happen anytime soon

    13 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • tigerfire21's picture
    tigerfire21
    34

    no exes, but the hot but evil boy I used to know in high school used
    to wear one that i really liked ( I don't know what it was.), and when I smell it I remember him.

    13 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • OliviaJin's picture
    OliviaJin
    35

    Oh, fo sho. I actually TOTALLY mishandled the relationship, and smelling his cologne always reminds me of him, which always reminds me of how I treated him SO badly without meaning to. I don't even know what it is, but I recently smelled another guy wearing it and couldn't bring myself to talk to the guy for more than a minute before I had to excuse myself!!

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  • Autumns_Elegy's picture
    Autumns_Elegy
    36

    My ex wore pretty cheap cologne.

    He wore Lynx Voodoo and Rexona (some random smell).
    For a while my next boy wore BOTH of those, and would often wonder why I refused to hug him while he was wearing that.

    Thankfully my current beau occasionally breaks out the Hugo Boss.

    13 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • cjmara805's picture
    cjmara805
    38

    Aqua Di Gio... I loved that scent and felt so safe when I smelled it. Now I'm utterly disgusted. One of my coworkers wears that and it's a horrible reminder every time he walks by.

    13 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • cmill38's picture
    cmill38
    39

    Aqua di Gio...it seems to be a popular one that ruined it for us. i have mixed feelings about it. i don't think i could ever date anyone else that wears it as a guy I date for 2 years straight and then off and on for the past 4 years wears it. There's mixed feeling because its one of those "someone who makes me so angry because of all the hurt but someone that makes me the happiest person in the world at the same time" kind of thing. it's one of those scents that i immediately smell when another man wearing it walks by and i just stop for a minute and remember the good times. haha!

    13 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • sarahPUFFY's picture
    sarahPUFFY
    41

    Sort of...I have this perfume that I LOVE, called ...Be Kissable. I wore it all the time when I was with my ex, and when we broke up, I stopped wearing it, because it reminded me of him too much. I went back to my original scent, True Honesty.

    13 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • Morenasobuena's picture
    Morenasobuena
    42

    Curve no longer smells good to me anymore..but it's great because my boyfriend doesn't like that scent

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  • tigr3bianca's picture
    tigr3bianca
    44

    Goddess by Baby Phat was what I used to wear but can't because of the memories it brings back. For me, scents and smells from anything be it hygeine products or just the atmosphere in a place carry a lot of meaning and thus trigger memories.

    13 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • linmaru's picture
    linmaru
    45

    Kenneth Cole Black, and Guess something (the blue one). Both men I had completely fallen for wore Guess, at times it got confusing.

    Its hard talking to him again, and he still wear the same cologne, brings back urges that go with the scent.

    12 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment